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Comment #4774

2016-02-09T12:51:19Z

I remember those girls whose fathers took the cookie orders into their offices, and I resented that because there was always a contest as to who could sell the most (BAD idea) and of course that gave them an unfair advantage. My father did have an office to take orders from, but he refused, on the grounds that (1) it was my job, and (2) it was not fair to his coworkers. Would that more present-day workers would be so considerate of their fellows!

And yes, I hated selling door-to-door. Why did I stay in Girl Scouts? Parental pressure, I think. Nothing overt, but it was expected, and I did it. I think they thought I was enjoying myself, and it would be good for me. I suppose it was good for me—we went to Europe in high school!—and I loved the opportunities to hike and camp, but the rest of the program? No thanks.

Comment #4773

2016-02-09T12:43:14Z

Good points, Bill, though I buy for the cookies so I don't care who's selling them. I did note that a mother was following the girls as they went door-to-door (though she stayed on the sidewalk) and I can't say I approve of that. If they're going to be independent, let them be independent. I wonder if they're allowed to go trick-or-treating. This was during the day, in a safe neighborhood, and there were three of them. At least one of them probably had a cell phone.

I went by myself to sell to our neighbors, not that it was a big deal since I roamed the neighborhood freely all the time.

Our high school band goes door-to-door fundraising by selling apples (they, too, take orders and deliver later), and even they have a parent within sight. I have less of a problem with that, as (1) they are going to unfamiliar neighborhoods, (2) they have to be driven to those neighborhoods and thus require a car and driver anyway, and (3) participation is mandatory. Still, it seems a bit weird.

Comment #4772

2016-02-09T12:35:06Z

I'm with Bill on this one, although I think some parents did the work in my day, too. Many parents took the sign-up sheets into the office with them and did the work for the girls. My dad didn't have an office job, so I had to go door to door (my mom did not go with me). This was absolute torture for an extremely shy 9 year old especially when I got yelled at by one woman for not understanding what her "no soliciting" sign meant. Needless to say, cookie sales, and Girl Scouts in general, were a short-lived experiment for me.

Comment #4771

2016-02-09T12:14:12Z

MY issue with current Girl Scout practices rests with parents doing all of the work.

Outside of our local Publix, I had a parent ask me to buy Girl Scout cookies. "Where's your daughter?" "Why" "Because I'll only buy the cookies from a Girl Scout, not her mommy." "She's in the rest room"

When I got done shopping 30 minutes later, no little girl at the table.

I always thought the cookies were designed to make the organization money, but also for the development of the Girl Scout. If Mommy and Daddy are going to do all of the work, then there's not much point in my buying them.

So while tables out in front of Publix might be easier and more convenient, I think parents must resist the urge to do all of the work for the girls, and I think in part it spoils the experience.

I DO think it is probably safer than going door to door, so I don't oppose the practice, but parents just have to let them do their thing, and I will NEVER buy from a parent, only the Girl Scout.