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Comment #3404

2013-04-07T16:04:22Z

Oh boy, do I understand that also, Sarah!

Comment #3403

2013-04-07T13:49:22Z

For me, it is the act of going to the store that is the problem. I'm one of those people that hates to shop. When I finally get the momentum up to get to the store (this applies to grocery shopping, too) then I want to purchase enough to last me....forever (so I never have to go shopping again). Too bad that doesn't work.

Sarah

Comment #3402

2013-04-06T11:43:55Z

Absolutely! And it's that memory—of things needed being unavailable, either because the store doesn't have them or because I can't for whatever reason get to the store—that keeps me from paring down as much as I'd like. It's hard to adjust to an "abundance/always available" mentality. But I can cut down quite a bit and still have plenty of toilet paper in case a hurricane hits. I just want my rooms, closets, drawers, and other spaces not to be so full that I have trouble fitting the next thing in.

Another thing I have to work on is the time issue I also mentioned: If I'm not working at the last minute, it won't matter that I can't get to the store now for more printer ink.

Comment #3401

2013-04-06T11:06:49Z

The solution that "the best place to store the extras is at the store" only works if the store can be counted on to have it! That's not true here - there are times when all the stores that I know of in Brikama are out of the same thing. If it's my favorite variety of soda, I can survive, but if it's toilet paper that's missing, that's much worse.

Comment #3400

2013-03-28T11:29:08Z

Thanks for the comment, Leanne. I do like to have extra computer paper, almost as much as extra toilet paper. But in theory I love the office supply store storage idea!

Comment #3399

2013-03-27T13:49:49Z

Definitely a topic of interest to me! Thanks! I liked the connection between miscalculating space and time, such as before a vacation. Too true.

I lived in Manhattan for 2 years, zero storage space, a tiny refrig and no car. My sister in London stops at the greengrocer nearly every day, for her under-counter refrig. Better freezer, though--my "shoebox" freezer was worthless.

I have to keep re-learning that cleaning out, organizing, and decluttering are never once-and-for-all! I have to schedule time to keep at it, or the space fills up again. Quickly. Reading that others are in the battle, too, helps.

Here is a thought that has helped me many times, especially with the fear of doing without. I don't recall which book it's from. "There is a great place to store that extra box of paper clips or computer paper. It's called the office supply store." I don't have to store everything myself! I can get to the store when I need to, or close enough. There is a difference between an inconvenience and an emergency.

Comment #3398

2013-03-25T19:38:35Z

Thanks for the comment and the link, Tienne. Other people's efforts, successes, and even failures are always inspirational. May your own efforts bear good fruit!

Comment #3397

2013-03-25T18:37:31Z

Problems are still problems whether first world or third world! Many immigrants who come here suffer from the loss of community even as they acquire wealth, so it is not a problem isolated to one culture or peoples.

I have a never-ending battle with my family's accumulation of "stuff." At the root I think, is a fear of doing without. As though if we did not have a thing, we could not get by or go on in the manner we want to. I have a great yearning for a simple life, and what seems an uncrossable canyon between us. Thank you for posting on this important subject! There was a great article in the NY Times Magazine about it a couple weeks ago. http://www.nytimes.com/2013/03/10/opinion/sunday/living-with-less-a-lot-less.html?_r=0

Comment #3396

2013-03-25T16:34:23Z

We had a glimpse of that when we moved to Boston, and into an apartment. Part of it was a relief (we were forced to do some decluttering) but it was certainly painful. Enough to make me determined to declutter now (though I've been working on it over 10 years!) because when you're forced to do it, it's easy to make mistakes.

Comment #3395

2013-03-25T15:59:26Z

Wait until you down-size to an apartment, after a very big home. It is possible to do it, but somewhat painful also. RC

Comment #3394

2013-03-25T15:14:08Z

I love your Tetris analogy, Monica.

Comment #3393

2013-03-25T15:07:40Z

Janet- when I lived in Houston, I got a week's worth of groceries using my bike saddle bags plus a backpack. I used to rate groceries based on volume- example- I would regularly purchase 100 corn tortillas rather than one bag of tortilla chips, and then bake or fry my own chips in the name of saving valuable transportation real estate.

For anyone wondering what a Swiss fridge looks like, this is from my blog archives, although our current fridge is just a smidge bigger because the freezer is now it's own appliance and is no longer taking up a shoebox worth of room in the fridge.

http://celebratingasimplelife.blogspot.ch/2008/04/saturday-menu.html

Comment #3392

2013-03-25T14:09:32Z

Until the store that is 30 minutes away reopens, our grocery store is now an 80-90 minute round trip, if I'm walking—and that doesn't count shopping time. The closest groceries are at Target, which is an hour-long round trip. Not only would I learn to make do with less, I'd be in great shape!

Comment #3391

2013-03-25T13:43:00Z

It amazes me to remember just how long it took me to become a good calculator of how much food I could carry on my back. I first had to learn in Japan where the closest grocery store was a 20minute bike ride away. I still had trouble when I first moved to Switzerland and the closest grocery store was a 5minute walk away. It wasn’t until a few years of Swiss living that I got pretty good at figuring out what would fit in my backpack. It’s hard to train yourself out of the “but it’s such a good deal I have to buy it NOW” line you’re fed in America so much – even when you have to carry your food on your back and keep it in a tiny fridge! My suggestion to you – combine your exercise routine with your shopping for a month: only walk to the store and carry everything home on your back. You’ll learn a thing or two about just how much you do or don’t need!!

Comment #3390

2013-03-25T11:48:43Z

I do plead that our garage is so full of other stuff because we don't have a basement. (Where else to people have their washer and dryer in the garage?) But that doesn't mean there isn't a lot that could be decluttered.

Comment #3389

2013-03-25T11:46:44Z

At least your garage is full of what a garage is for!

Comment #3388

2013-03-25T11:39:17Z

My refrigerator is only uncomfortably full when I am having guests. When Kevin comes home he will argue that there is not enough food.

I am also trying to declutter my home. I have hopes for the basement but not until our friends take their stuff that we are storing while they try to sell their house. The garage is hopeless - it will always be full. The rest of the house doesn't look too bad until you look in the closets, cabinets and drawers....

Good luck with your endeavor!